Amicable – What The World Will Never Know….
We met half way up the mountain on a hiking trail…. discreet, watchful, cautious. The instructions were clear… the conditions set.Read More
We met half way up the mountain on a hiking trail…. discreet, watchful, cautious. The instructions were clear… the conditions set.Read More
Rejection – the best kept secret…. the hidden shit… probably the shittiest one.Read More
*This is for my far off friend who is oblivious of his un-dealt issues – trapped in rage – on the rebound…Read More
Ping, ping, ping… Wat de fok!! Robbery!! Panick button… sssjjjjtt… slowly out of bed……..Ag fok… why do I have to bring the entire donnerse kitchen to my bedroom…with all this noise I can just as well give myself over!!!
Hanlie Visser is a practicing attorney with a vast experience in divorce law. The information shared in this blog is a combination of stories shared with her over the years as well as her own experiences.Read More
Accidents are horrible. Moving is traumatic.
DIVORCE IS SIMPLY KAK!!
Google can’t prepare you for it.
Books can’t teach you to cope with it.
You’re alone…Read More
At precisely 10 o’ clock I’m escorted to his office. The silence – nerve wrecking… Where is everybody? Not a sound. Are the telephones dead??? My heart beats like thunder…
My Thoughts
Online dating is about –
• Being heard…
• Searching for the One – the “soul mate”
The Civilised One…
Divorce is not always about violence, anger, hatred and fighting. There are the “amicable” ones.
The summons gets served.
Thinking back to that like-any-other-Monday-morning I remember the doorbell ringing, the man, his expressionless face, piercing eyes, unapproachable…Read More


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