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CHALLENGE YOURSELF: D.I.Y. … STEP BY STEP… THE UNTOLD SHIT…

This shit house is falling apart!!! Nothing is working!!! Switch on a light… fuses!!! Plugs… dead. Geyser…cold. Stove…trips. Pool pump…ontplof. Roof… leaking!!! Basin … blocked. I cannot take this anymore. The least HE could have done is fix the sinking ship before leaving… But NO.. couldn’t get away quickly enough!!! Now I’m sitting in this dump with a handyman that’s fast becoming a family friend… costing me a fortune. NO, NO, NO!!! It’s time for Hanlie D.I.Y to rise from the dead…Read More

THE MADNESS OF OUR EMOTIONS – SADNESS – THE FIRST STEP…

She is sad
She is hurt
She is dying
She is alone
She is lonely
She is a mess
She is judged
She is ignored
She is suicidal
She is stressed
She is confused
She is fucked up
She is depressed
She is misunderstood
She is tired but still living
She is hurt but won’t show it
She is screaming but is silent
She is in pain but still smiling
She is ME.
(Unknown)

THE MADNESS OF OUR ACTIONS – The Desire to Change …..WHEN ANGRY!!!

The more I think, the angrier I get. How I hate HIM!!! To dump me for a blond Poppie, half his age with probably one brain cell!!! Absurd. Unthinkable!!! Unimaginable!!! Embarrassing!!! BUT mark my words. No one will ever have the privilege to mess with me again. Not in a million years!!! Over my dead body!!! Hanlie-war-machine-not-to-be-messed-around-ever-again is starting her new life as from today. New look, new demeanor, new fokkin alles!!! Let me get out of this bed. Sleeping time is over. It’s time for change. Big change. Complete change. Transformation!!! World, here I come. THE NEW ME!!!Read More

CHALLENGE YOURSELF – ORANGE RIVER RAFTING THE UNTOLD SHIT

Murphy is my second name.
My last camping experience… 20 years ago at Sodwana. It ended in disaster. Stitches…I collided with a tree at full speed!!!
This time different – I was in control of the planning… what can go wrong???

THE MADNESS OF OUR EMOTIONS – The FIVE Stages Of Grief – An Overview.

DIVORCE IS SHIT. IT HURTS!!!
Married or Not … it’s the same.
At 25, 45, 65…it’s the same.
1st, 2nd, 3rd marriage…. it’s the same

You can’t escape it… you can’t wish it away… you have to deal with it!!!
It takes time. Not a day… not a week… not a month. Maybe years…Why? There’s FIVE STAGES OF GRIEF to work through !!!Read More

The Galaxy – Armageddon / Judgement Day

Throughout my life I was surrounded by exceptionally wise people… My Dad. His favorite advice in times of heartbreak… “It’s an infatuation my child. It disappears quickly when reality hits.” My lecturer Diko van Zyl… My mentor in law Leon …who taught me (in that special language we perfected…) “Gee die Doos net genoeg tou en hy hang homself…. En – Beplan!!! Jy kan nie sonder ‘n strategie werk nie… dan sien jy jou gat – sonder ‘n spieël.!!!”

The Galaxy – Taking It’s Toll….

Inky pinky ponky
Father had a donkey,
Donkey died, father cried,
Inky pinky ponky.

Peter. Kyle. Carl. Tinus…. The choices legio….

The Galaxy – ‘n Fokkin Deurmekaarspul….

“Voice note…Kyle, Hanlie… het verstik … talk bit later….”
Ek hoor die “ping” en sien die foto..gelyk!!… Ek staar… my nekhare rys.. kopvel kriewel….
I get a feeling, an omen, a 6th sense… I instinctively know…. even before I’ve seen his name, read his message… there’s something about this man.
I’ve never met him… yet I’ve known him forever.
I’ve never spoken to him… yet I know what his voice sounds like…
I know nothing of him… yet I know everything…
and for a moment I am scared…Read More

THIN, THINNER…/ DIKKER

My last diet attempt was in High School. My sister and I, both desperate to loose weight, borrowed a book from the library (which somehow never found it’s way back) with every possible diet under the sun.Read More