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THE DEVASTATION OF THE EMOTION – “I’M NOT GOOD ENOUGH”

“Frankly, my dear, I don’t give a damn.” (Rhett Butler – Gone with the Wind)
In modern language…“Lol..I don’t give a shit!!!”
Rejection at its best… Undeniably… unmistakably… true.
The message is clear… “I don’t love you. I don’t want you. I don’t need you.
INTERPRETED AS… I’m not good enough…Read More

THE BATTLE OF THE SEXES: PRIMARY CARE – BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER

It’s a sad, sad story… It’s the story of two people, once blissfully happy, now horribly gatvol. Once proud parents, now raging enemies fighting over children… this is a “custody” battle…It always reminds me about these well known words – Read More

THE MADNESS OF OUR EMOTIONS – SADNESS – THE FIRST STEP…

She is sad
She is hurt
She is dying
She is alone
She is lonely
She is a mess
She is judged
She is ignored
She is suicidal
She is stressed
She is confused
She is fucked up
She is depressed
She is misunderstood
She is tired but still living
She is hurt but won’t show it
She is screaming but is silent
She is in pain but still smiling
She is ME.
(Unknown)

THE MADNESS OF OUR EMOTIONS – The FIVE Stages Of Grief – An Overview.

DIVORCE IS SHIT. IT HURTS!!!
Married or Not … it’s the same.
At 25, 45, 65…it’s the same.
1st, 2nd, 3rd marriage…. it’s the same

You can’t escape it… you can’t wish it away… you have to deal with it!!!
It takes time. Not a day… not a week… not a month. Maybe years…Why? There’s FIVE STAGES OF GRIEF to work through !!!Read More