The Galaxy – Taking It’s Toll….
Inky pinky ponky
Father had a donkey,
Donkey died, father cried,
Inky pinky ponky.
Peter. Kyle. Carl. Tinus…. The choices legio….
Inky pinky ponky
Father had a donkey,
Donkey died, father cried,
Inky pinky ponky.
Peter. Kyle. Carl. Tinus…. The choices legio….
“Voice note…Kyle, Hanlie… het verstik … talk bit later….”
Ek hoor die “ping” en sien die foto..gelyk!!… Ek staar… my nekhare rys.. kopvel kriewel….
I get a feeling, an omen, a 6th sense… I instinctively know…. even before I’ve seen his name, read his message… there’s something about this man.
I’ve never met him… yet I’ve known him forever.
I’ve never spoken to him… yet I know what his voice sounds like…
I know nothing of him… yet I know everything…
and for a moment I am scared…Read More
So many reasons … The “Traditionals”… affairs, substance abuse, physical abuse, financial problems…. then…..
The “New Millenniums”… the “Difficult-To-Define”…. the general reasons for the breakdown – Read More
We met half way up the mountain on a hiking trail…. discreet, watchful, cautious. The instructions were clear… the conditions set.Read More
*This is for my far off friend who is oblivious of his un-dealt issues – trapped in rage – on the rebound…Read More
Hanlie Visser is a practicing attorney with a vast experience in divorce law. The information shared in this blog is a combination of stories shared with her over the years as well as her own experiences.Read More
Accidents are horrible. Moving is traumatic.
DIVORCE IS SIMPLY KAK!!
Google can’t prepare you for it.
Books can’t teach you to cope with it.
You’re alone…Read More
At precisely 10 o’ clock I’m escorted to his office. The silence – nerve wrecking… Where is everybody? Not a sound. Are the telephones dead??? My heart beats like thunder…
My Thoughts
Online dating is about –
• Being heard…
• Searching for the One – the “soul mate”
The Civilised One…
Divorce is not always about violence, anger, hatred and fighting. There are the “amicable” ones.


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